When friends say “You’re so lucky” in relation to my career progression, I’m reluctant to agree.
I contribute my success not to luck. I was born into a working class family and have become self-made not through luck.
So how is it that I’m currently in Dubai, relaxing and enjoying the wonderful heat and luxurious hotels, restaurants and spas?
In one word: mindset. A positive mindset. One that is not limited to “I can’t achieve this” or “That’s way out of my reach and unrealistic.”
3 daily practices I use to ensure my mindset leads to success are:
I’m constantly grateful for all I have and all that I will be receiving.
It’s something we constantly read about but how do we practice? It just takes 5 minutes when you wake and 5 minutes before you sleep to do. And importantly, it sets the tone for the day when you focused on not what you are lacking (money, success, love) but what you are abundant in.
A sequence of events always follows from this practice to attract even more to you, which makes you more grateful!
Try it and see how this changes your mindset and then your life.
Positive friends/social circle
I’m a firm believer in “Your tribe affects your vibe.”
What I mean here is that those you associate with on a regular basis affect your frame of mind.
Look at who you are surrounded by, who you chose to socialise with, who you follow on social media and eliminate any negative people you see.
I enjoy the company of other successful women or women who strive for success. We support each other on our journeys and give each other positive words of encouragement.
These connections have been formed through networking, personal introductions and of course linked in!
Turn failures into lessons
I embrace “failures” as they always teach me invaluable lessons about myself. Not learning from failures and repeating failures will not lead to success of course.
Picking yourself up and changing the practices that lead to that failure will always develop your character and give you the strength to continue.
All entrepreneurs, including myself, have failed. I started luxury pop/ups 18 months ago and my first event didn’t bring the level of footfall I desired.
I promoted the event on social media and to my network so why didn’t I attract the number of visitors I wanted?
The venue was not luxury enough. The brands I selected were not all luxury. So I learnt. And changed everything. And it has worked. My last event at Nolita Social in Knightsbridge was a huge success, as will be my Luxury Christmas Shopping Day in two weeks.
I hope my insights have been useful for you to read and I look forward to seeing you at my networking and social events soon.
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